A woman is not a childbearing tool, but can have a loving child, which is just a continuation of love. No one stipulates that a woman must have a child, even if someone stipulates that if our family doesn’t mind, you will make yourself like this.
It’s really important to have children, but because of this, you make all your relatives and friends around you feel bad every day, even you have to think twice before you say a word in front of you. Do you think it’s costeffective?
Father doesn’t mind that you don’t have children, Ma Yi, not to mention Yan Yan. My uncle and aunt are even more distressed by your cousin, reducing your ideological burden, and even taking them seriously when you are always surprised by marriage. I hope you won’t let yourself become depressed all the time because of children. Are you not white?
Section 14
Su Qintong’s tears are scratching away. She really didn’t worry too much about having children. She just didn’t want everyone to worry too much about her inability to get pregnant before she did IVF.
Have you ever thought that it is not a good thing for your child to grow up or for your husband and wife to make you pregnant and have children?
To persuade everyone to have children, Ouyang Xianqian simply advised Su Qintong to accept the fact that she could not have children.
In this way, if you relax your mind, you will be pregnant one day, then happy—ending.
If you have nothing to say, you can accept the fact anyway, and it won’t have much impact on your life.
Su Qintong took a deep breath.
She did ignore people around her husband, inlaws and parents because of her children, and she also ignored the fact that she liked to hang out with friends.
If infertility is a fact, do you really want to ruin your original life with such a fait accompli?
No, no, she likes her old life.
She doesn’t want to ruin these lives.
Perhaps, as Mu Yan said, if they don’t have children, they will live a world of one generation and two people. If they get old and don’t have children to take care of them, they will spend money to hire nannies and nurses, which will not affect their lives at all.
If she really likes children so much, then adopt a young one, except that she has no blood, and adopting is no different from her own.
I’m stuck in my head.
There are also ways that you will try to persuade me that others are not always careful when they come to this topic before me, for fear that I will be unhappy if I don’t say a good word, which will make me feel like a patient or a terminally ill patient.
That’s all.
If you can’t have a baby, you can’t have a baby. I can’t make a mess of it.
At this time, I feel that my thoughts have unconsciously become humble because I can’t get pregnant. I want to be arrogant. I can’t accept such humbleness. I have a quarrel with Yan from time to time. In retrospect, my life is worse than mine.
I sometimes provoke him by saying that if he were older, I might not feel so guilty about him. It’s really wrong to think about it.
It is not difficult to understand that it is true for a woman to be infertile.
But they, the others, can’t see her going on like this.
Can persuade her to look down on this matter from various persuasion aspects.
Tell her not to spoil herself and others by such a thing again.
Year after year, if I’m still pregnant, I’ll adopt two grades and raise them as twins.
Choose to accept.
But I don’t think it’s enough to accept the day
Can it be like? !
I should be glad that I didn’t meet Ma Yi’s exhusband. People are generous about their husbands and fathersinlaw, and they advised me to go with nature. There are people like you around to help persuade me.
Without these words, I think I’ll have to go to the eye of a needle.
See Su Qintong eyes slowly spread out Ouyang Qian finally gave a sigh of relief.
That’s right.
Small eyes are pregnant again, but she didn’t say a word about pregnancy when she talked to her for fear of stimulating me. Even the pregnancy was only when the hospital met her for a prenatal checkup. I don’t think I can figure it out and accept that I can’t have children. You should go further and further with me in the future.
If you don’t tell her when you are pregnant, you dare not bring it to her for her to see after the baby is born.
I didn’t think deeply and didn’t realize what I had done.
It’s really let Su Qintong know how many things he neglected.
And you hit a blow today, or I guess I’ll be alone in another year and a half.
I think he is also unhappy. If you figure it out, find a time to talk to him.
Yes!
When he was pregnant with children, Mu Yan was just like his punching bag. He fired at him if he didn’t care, and he was so goodnatured that he let himself put aside the other men’s bodies. It is estimated that he had already divorced.
Be yourself or be happy.
If infertility is destiny takes a hand, then my only happiness is that I went to Dan Guowei with you and met Yan. Maybe many people will think that he is younger than me and will definitely not take care of me, but he has always taken care of me and cared for me after marriage.
I don’t think there is a man in the world who can treat me better than him.
I should be content to have him in my life.
Well, you’d better keep these words and tell him slowly.
Su Qintong is really hurt to the extreme, and now he is figured out by Ouyang Xianqian.
Accepting the fact that she can’t have children has lightened her whole heart.
The face is stagnant and the gas is all scattered
At the dinner table, it was obvious that she was different. It was only after asking that the two sisters said these words in the kitchen.
Ma Xiufang saw that she was so worried that she finally fell. It’s best for you to get over it and stop being hard on yourself.
There is still a long way to go. You and Yan are still young. There is no need to carry such a heavy burden.
I worried everyone.
Section 15
It’s the second key to worry about it. It’s your husband and wife’s marriage. I think you’ve been having a very depressed marriage these days. Both of you smiled, and sometimes even if you laughed, you barely came out and looked at us.
Your mother has been eating and sleeping badly for you two couples all this time. Go back and talk to her later and tell her to stop worrying about you.
Minister Yang gets along well with Ma Xiufang, who is not a serious motherinlaw and has experienced infertility. Minister Yang always likes to talk to Ma Xiufang when he is depressed.
Because Su Qintong suddenly figured out that the atmosphere at the table was much easier than when he was eating, Mu Zhenhai said that he really asked for it, indicating that he really didn’t care so much about children.
After dinner, MuYan helped to clean up the dishes before they drove to Sue’s house with Ouyang Xianqian and his wife.